aasma
Let me go to fly the high, Let me think how do I want to colour my sky. Let me enjoy the praises and shy, Because it is not you, it is ‘I’. Let me draw the world, as I have seen by my eye. I want to cross the limit once, you stop me, Why?
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Saturday, August 11, 2018
Friday, August 10, 2018
Monday, June 8, 2015
Dowry and dowry law in India
In India, Dowry is becoming the biggest crime which really needs a strong law against it. Because of dowry, society feels women is a financial burden on the family. The demand for dowry has increased over time. In a 1980 study conducted by Rao, 75% of students responded that dowry was not important to marriage, but 40% of their parents’ likely expected dowry. Dowry in India is not limited to any specific religion. It is widespread among Hindus and other religions. For example, Indian Muslims call dowry as jahez, justify the practice in terms of jahez-e-fatimi. Islamists classify jahez into two categories: The first comprises some essential articles for the outfit of the bride as well as for conjugal life. The other is made up of valuable goods, clothes, jewelry, an amount of money for the groom's family, which is settled on after bargaining. The jahez often far exceeds the cost of the baraat and marriage parties. The jahez is separate from cash payment as Mahr or dower that Sharia religious law requires.
Dowry crimes can occur with the threat or occurrence of violence, so that the bride’s family is left with no choice but to give more dowry to protect their daughter. The northern and eastern states of India show higher rates of dowry-related violence. Dowry is considered a major contributor towards observed violence against women in India. Some of these offences include physical violence, emotional abuses, and even murder of brides and young girls prior to marriage. The predominant types of dowry crimes relate to cruelty (which includes torture and harassment), domestic violence (including physical, emotional and sexual assault), abatement to suicide and dowry death (including, issues of bride burning and murder).
`dowry’ means any property or valuable security given or agreed to be given either directly or indirectly by one party to a marriage to the other party to the marriage; or by the parents of either party to a marriage or by any other person, to either party to the marriage or to any other person; at or before or any time after the marriage in connection with the marriage of said parties but does not include dower or mahr in the case of persons to whom the Muslim Personal Law (Shariat) applies.
Dowry Prohibition Act 1961
The Dowry Prohibition Act 1961 prohibits the request, payment or acceptance of a dowry "as consideration for the marriage", where "dowry" is defined as a gift demanded or given as a precondition for a marriage. Gifts given without a precondition are not considered dowry, and are legal, per section 3(2). Asking for or giving of dowry can be punished by imprisonment of up to six months, a fine of up to Rs. 15000 or the amount of dowry (whichever is higher), or imprisonment up to 5 years. It replaced several pieces of anti-dowry legislation that had been enacted by various Indian states.
Ban on advertisement -
If any-
(a) offers, through any advertisement in any newspaper, periodical, journal or through any other media any share in his property or of any money or both as a share in any business or other interest as consideration for the marriage of his son or daughter or any other relative,
(b) prints or publishes or circulates any advertisement referred to Cl. (a), he shall be punishable with imprisonment for a term which shall not be less than six months, but which may extend to five years , or with fine which may extend to fifteen thousand rupees:
Provided that the Court may, for adequate and special reasons to be recorded in the judgment, impose a sentence of imprisonment for a term of less than six months.
Friday, May 29, 2015
Helen Keller - A Deaf and Blind world famous speaker, author and political activist
“Once
I knew the depth where no hope was, and darkness lay on the face of all things.
Then love came and set my soul free. Once I knew only darkness and stillness.
Now I know hope and joy.”
“I
was appointed on a commission to investigate the conditions of the blind. For
the first time I, who had thought blindness a misfortune beyond human control,
found that too much of it was traceable to wrong industrial conditions, often
caused by the selfishness and greed of employers. And the social evil
contributed its share. I found that poverty drove women to a life of shame that
ended in blindness.”
–
Helen Keller
A
woman who had no eyes, no ears but heard the world & saw the world. She
never felt difficulties due to her disabilities & enjoyed the world. A
disable person always needs a support but she gave the support to other blind,
deaf & dumb people. She made her life an example for them who have
everything but living a hopeless & depress life or for those women who
thinks she is facing the worst. Helen Keller shown that how worst can be the
best.
Helen
Adams Keller was born on June 27, 1880, in Tuscumbia, Alabama. Helen Keller was
born with the ability to see and hear. At 19 months old, she contracted an
illness. The illness left her both deaf and blind. At that time, she was able
to communicate somewhat with Martha Washington, the six-year-old daughter of
the family cook, who understood her signs; by the age of seven, Keller had more
than 60 home signs to communicate with her family.
In
1886, A physician J. Julian Chisolm, an eye, ear, nose, and throat specialist
in Baltimore referred the Kellers to Alexander Graham Bell, who was working
with deaf children at the time. Bell advised them to contact the Perkins
Institute for the Blind at Bridgman. Michael Anagnos, the school's director,
asked 20-year-old former student Anne Sullivan, herself visually impaired, to
become Keller's instructor. It was the beginning of a 49-year-long relationship
during which Sullivan evolved into Keller's governess and eventually her
companion.
Anne
Sullivan arrived at Keller's house in March 1887, and immediately began to
teach Helen to communicate by spelling words into her hand, beginning with
"d-o-l-l" for the doll that she had brought Keller as a present.
Keller was frustrated, at first, because she did not understand that every
object had a word uniquely identifying it. In fact, when Sullivan was trying to
teach Keller the word for "mug", Keller became so frustrated she
broke the mug. Keller's big breakthrough in communication came the next month,
when she realized that the motions her teacher was making on the palm of her
hand, while running cool water over her other hand, symbolized the idea of
"water"; she then nearly exhausted Sullivan demanding the names of
all the other familiar objects in her world.
Starting
in May 1888, Keller attended the Perkins Institute for the Blind. Then they moved
to New York to attend the Wright-Humason School for the Deaf, and to learn from
Sarah Fuller at the Horace Mann School for the Deaf. In 1896, they returned to
Massachusetts and Keller entered The Cambridge School for Young Ladies. In
1904, at the age of 24, Keller graduated from Radcliffe, becoming the first
deaf blind person to earn a Bachelor of Arts degree. She maintained a
correspondence with the Austrian philosopher and pedagogue Wilhelm Jerusalem,
who was one of the first to discover her literary talent.
Determined
to communicate with others as conventionally as possible, Keller learned to
speak, and spent much of her life giving speeches and lectures. She learned to
"hear" people's speech by reading their lips with her hands—her sense
of touch had become extremely subtle. She became proficient at using Braille and
reading sign language with her hands as well.
Keller
went on to become a world-famous speaker and author. She is remembered as an
advocate for people with disabilities, amid numerous other causes. She was a
suffragist, a pacifist, an opponent of Woodrow Wilson, a radical socialist and
a birth control supporter. In 1915 she and George Kessler founded the Helen
Keller International (HKI) organization. This organization is devoted to
research in vision, health and nutrition. In 1920 she helped to found the
American Civil Liberties Union (ACLU). Keller traveled to 40-some-odd countries
with Sullivan, making several trips to Japan and becoming a favorite of the
Japanese people. Keller met every U.S. President from Grover Cleveland to
Lyndon B. Johnson and was friends with many famous figures, including Alexander
Graham Bell, Charlie Chaplin and Mark Twain.
Keller
was a member of the Socialist Party and actively campaigned and wrote in
support of the working class from 1909 to 1921. Newspaper columnists who had
praised her courage and intelligence before she expressed her socialist views
now called attention to her disabilities. The editor of the Brooklyn Eagle
wrote that her "mistakes sprung out of the manifest limitations of her
development." Keller responded to that editor, referring to having met
him before he knew of her political views: At that time the compliments he paid
me were so generous that I blush to remember them. But now that I have come out
for socialism he reminds me and the public that I am blind and deaf and
especially liable to error. I must have shrunk in intelligence during the years
since I met him. ... Oh, ridiculous Brooklyn Eagle! Socially blind and deaf, it
defends an intolerable system, a system that is the cause of much of the
physical blindness and deafness which we are trying to prevent.
Keller
wrote a total of 12 published books and several articles. Keller suffered a
series of strokes in 1961 and spent the last years of her life at her home. On
September 14, 1964, President Lyndon B. Johnson awarded her the Presidential
Medal of Freedom, one of the United States' two highest civilian honors. In
1965 she was elected to the National Women's Hall of Fame at the New York
World's Fair.
Keller
devoted much of her later life to raising funds for the American Foundation for
the Blind. She died in her sleep on June 1, 1968, at her home. She gave
everything to society. According to her -
"The
few own the many because they possess the means of livelihood of all ... The
country is governed for the richest, for the corporations, the bankers, the
land speculators, and for the exploiters of labor. The majority of mankind are
working people. So long as their fair demands—the ownership and control of
their livelihoods—are set at naught, we can have neither men's rights nor
women's rights. The majority of mankind is ground down by industrial oppression
in order that the small remnant may live in ease."
Mother Teresa: A woman with a noble soul
“It is not how much
we do,
But how much love we
put in the doing.
It is not how much we
give,
But how much love we
put in the giving.”
– Mother Teresa
Mother Teresa does not need
any introduction. She is the goddess for someone, she is saint for someone, she
is social worker for someone, and she is nun for someone. Whole world recognize
her as a kind hearted saint and a divine & noble soul. She devoted her life
for HIV/ AIDS, leprosy and tuberculosis. Due to her unremarkable service, Mother
Teresa has been awarded by numerous honors including The Nobel Peace
Prize, Padma Shree, Jawaharlal Nehru Award for International Understanding,
Bharat Ratna. She was also called "Blessed Teresa of Calcutta".
In earlier phase, she was a
nun & had started her work for helping & educating people. Though no
one knew it at the time, “Sister Teresa had just become Mother Teresa".
She began her missionary work with the poor in 1948. She replaced her
traditional Loreto habit with a simple white cotton sari decorated with a blue
border. Mother Teresa adopted Indian citizenship to serve the people of
Kolkata. Mother Teresa said "By blood, I am Albanian. By citizenship,
an Indian. By faith, I am a Catholic nun. As to my calling, I belong to the
world. As to my heart, I belong entirely to the Heart of Jesus."
Soon she started tending to
the needs of the destitute and starving. In the beginning of 1949, she was
joined in her effort by a group of young women and laid the foundations to
create a new religious community helping the "poorest among the
poor". Her efforts quickly caught the attention of Indian officials,
including the prime minister, who expressed his appreciation.
Teresa wrote in her diary
that she had no income and had to resort to begging for food and supplies.
Teresa experienced doubt, loneliness and the temptation to return to the
comfort of convent life during these early months. She wrote in her diary:
“Our Lord wants me to be a
free nun covered with the poverty of the cross. Today, I learned a good lesson.
The poverty of the poor must be so hard for them. While looking for a home I
walked and walked till my arms and legs ached. I thought how much they must
ache in body and soul, looking for a home, food and health. Then, the comfort
of Loreto came to tempt me. 'You have only to say the word and all that will be
yours again,' the Tempter kept on saying ... Of free choice, my God, and out of
love for you, I desire to remain and does whatever be your Holy will in my
regard. I did not let a single tear come.”
Teresa received Vatican
permission on 7 October 1950 to start the diocesan congregation that would
become the Missionaries of Charity. Its mission was to care for, in her own
words, "the hungry, the naked, the homeless, the crippled, the blind, the
lepers, and all those people who feel unwanted, unloved, uncared for throughout
society, people that have become a burden to the society and are shunned by everyone."
It began as a small congregation with 13 members in Calcutta; by 1997 it had
grown to more than 4,000 sisters running orphanages, AIDS hospices and charity
centers worldwide, and caring for refugees, the blind, disabled, aged,
alcoholics, the poor and homeless, and victims of floods, epidemics, and
famine.
In 1952, Mother Teresa
opened the first Home for the Dying in space made available by the city of
Calcutta (Kolkata). With the help of Indian officials she converted an
abandoned Hindu temple into the Kalighat Home for the Dying, a free hospice for
the poor. She renamed it Kalighat, the Home of the Pure Heart (Nirmal Hriday).
Those brought to the home received medical attention and were afforded the
opportunity to die with dignity, according to the rituals of their faith;
Muslims were read the Quran, Hindus received water from the Ganges, and
Catholics received the Last Rites. "A beautiful death," she said, "It
is for people who lived like animals to die like angels—loved and wanted."
Mother Teresa soon opened a
home for those suffering from Hansen's disease, commonly known as leprosy, and
called the hospice Shanti Nagar (City of Peace). The Missionaries of Charity
also established several leprosy outreach clinics throughout Calcutta,
providing medication, bandages and food. As the Missionaries of Charity took in
increasing numbers of lost children, Mother Teresa felt the need to create a
home for them. In 1955 she opened the Nirmala Shishu Bhavan, the Children's
Home of the Immaculate Heart, as a haven for orphans and homeless youth. By
2007 the Missionaries of Charity numbered approximately 450 brothers and 5,000 sisters’
worldwide, operating 600 missions, schools and shelters in 120 countries.
Mother
Teresa suffered a heart attack in Rome in 1983 while visiting Pope John Paul
II. After a second attack in 1989, she received an artificial pacemaker. In
April 1996, Mother Teresa fell and broke her collar bone. In August she
suffered from malaria and failure of the left heart ventricle. She had heart surgery
but it was clear that her health was declining. On 13 March 1997, she stepped
down from the head of Missionaries of Charity. She died on 5 September 1997.
Oprah Winfrey – World’s most influential woman and the best TV host
Have you heard about “The
Oprah Winfrey Show"? It was the best TV talk show. Not only best but highest-rated
program in history from 1986 to 2011. Oprah Winfrey, the host of this TV
show has been ranked the richest African-American of the 20th century, the
greatest black philanthropist in American history, and is currently (2012)
North America's only black billionaire.
She is also known as the most influential woman in the world.
Oprah Winfrey didn’t get
everything easily. She experienced the worst life during her childhood. . After
Winfrey's birth, her mother traveled north and Winfrey spent her first six
years living in rural poverty with her maternal grandmother, Hattie Mae who was
so poor that Winfrey often wore dresses made of potato sacks, for which the
local children made fun of her. She was raped at age nine. She was sent to live
with the man she calls her father, a barber. Her grandmother taught her to read
before the age of three and took her to the local church, where she was
nicknamed "The Preacher" for her ability to recite Bible verses. When
Winfrey was a child, her grandmother would hit her with a stick when she did not
do chores or if she misbehaved in any way.
Winfrey has stated she was
molested by her cousin, uncle, and a family friend, starting when she was nine
years old, something she first announced to her viewers on a 1986 episode of
her TV show regarding sexual abuse. When Winfrey discussed the alleged abuse
with family members at age 24, they refused to accept what she said. Winfrey
once commented that she had chosen not to be a mother because she had not been
mothered well. At 13, after suffering years of abuse, Winfrey ran away from
home. When she was 14, she became pregnant but her son was born prematurely and
he died shortly after birth. Winfrey later stated she felt betrayed by the
family member who had sold the story of her son to the National Enquirer in
1990.
TV columnist Howard
Rosenberg said, "She's a roundhouse, a full course meal, big, brassy,
loud, aggressive, hyper, laughable, lovable, soulful, tender, low-down, earthy
and hungry. And she may know the way to Phil Donahue's jugular. In 1993,
Winfrey hosted a rare prime-time interview with Michael Jackson, which became
the fourth most watched event in American television history as well as the
most watched interview ever, with an audience of 36.5 million. On December 1,
2005, Winfrey appeared on the Late Show with David Letterman to promote the new
Broadway musical The Color Purple, of which she was a producer, joining the
host for the first time in 16 years. The episode was hailed by some as the
"television event of the decade" and helped Letterman attract his
largest audience in more than 11 years: 13.45 million viewers.
Sunday, August 31, 2014
Aung San Suu Kyi : The Women Who Spent Her 15 Years Life Under House Arrest For Democracy In Her Country
Aung San Suu Kyi is the great inspiration in politics who fought against her country's militant for Democracy. She became the world's most famous political prisoner. She was put under house arrest for her political work for democratization. Military had offered her freedom if she would agreed to left the country but she refused. She knew that if she left the country then Berman military will never give her permission to enter in her country. Thus she never left Berma during her pro-democracy movement & spent 15 years under house arrest. Her famous speech was "Freedom to fear" in which she said, "It is not power that corrupts, but fear. Fear of losing power corrupts those who wield it and fear of the scourge of power corrupts those who are subject to it."
During this imprisonment, she was prevented from meeting her party supporters, media and international visitors. The military had denied the visa of her husband & children. Her husband died in 1999 during her imprisonment. She could not met him in his last days but she didn't left her country. She was also separated from her children, who live in the United Kingdom. She was recently released on 13 November 2010. Suu Kyi was released from house arrest on November 2010. She appeared in front of a crowd of her supporters, who rushed to her house in Rangoon when nearby barricades were removed by the security forces.Discussions were held between Suu Kyi and the Burmese government during 2011, which led to a number of official gestures to meet her demands. In October, around a tenth of Burma's political prisoners were freed in an amnesty and trade unions were legalised.
When she was asked for the opportunity of ministerial post during 2012 election, she said,
"I can tell you one thing – that under the present constitution, if you become a member of the government you have to vacate your seat in the national assembly. And I am not working so hard to get into parliament simply to vacate my seat." She says about her country's democracy patterns,: "We wish to learn from everybody who has achieved a transition to democracy, and also our great strong point is that, because we are so far behind everybody else, we can also learn which mistakes we should avoid."
Aung San Suu Kyi was awarded the Nobel Peace Prize in 1991. The Nobel Committee mentions:
- The Norwegian Nobel Committee has decided to award the Nobel Peace Prize for 1991 to Aung San Suu Kyi of Myanmar (Burma) for her non-violent struggle for democracy and human rights.
- ...Suu Kyi's struggle is one of the most extraordinary examples of civil courage in Asia in recent decades. She has become an important symbol in the struggle against oppression...
- ...In awarding the Nobel Peace Prize for 1991 to Aung San Suu Kyi, the Norwegian Nobel Committee wishes to honour this woman for her unflagging efforts and to show its support for the many people throughout the world who are striving to attain democracy, human rights and ethnic conciliation by peaceful means.
- —Oslo, 14 October 1991
Thursday, August 28, 2014
The Iron Lady.....Margaret Hilda Thatcher
Margaret Hilda Thatcher was the great inspiration for those women who never thought their career in Politics. She even not only entered in politics but proved herself too. She was the first lady prime minister of Britain. She also known as Iron lady due to her uncompromising politics & leadership style. she became the prime minister for 11 (from 1979 to 1990) years. Margaret Thatcher is the first living ex-prime minister in British history to be honored with a statue in the Houses of Parliament. It stands opposite a statue of Winston Churchill in the lobby of the House of Commons.
Margaret Thatcher quotes -
If you want something said, ask a man; if you want something done, ask a woman.
Any woman who understands the problems of running a home will be nearer to understanding the problems of running a country.
I love argument, I love debate. I don't expect anyone just to sit there and agree with me, that's not their job.
I'm extraordinarily patient provided I get my own way in the end. You and I come by road or rail, but economists travel on infrastructure.
If you set out to be liked, you would be prepared to compromise on anything at any time, and you would achieve nothing.
Wednesday, August 27, 2014
Let Me Go...
This darkness makes me feel unsafe
let me go
The relationships make me uncomfortable
let me go
I am a girl but a human being also
I have to see the world as you visit everywhere
let me go........
I will die in this loneliness
Don't create a reason for emptiness;
let me go
The relationships make me uncomfortable
let me go
I am a girl but a human being also
I have to see the world as you visit everywhere
let me go........
I will die in this loneliness
Don't create a reason for emptiness;
I can stand in this world with pride
If you set me free from your horrible hands;
Don't wrap me in a darken layer
let me go........
Tie a knot is not my destination
Being shy &fragile is not my identifications;
Let me grab the opportunities of happiness
Let me take my own decisions;
I am not an object for fruition
let me go...
Written by Chanda
If you set me free from your horrible hands;
Don't wrap me in a darken layer
let me go........
Tie a knot is not my destination
Being shy &fragile is not my identifications;
Let me grab the opportunities of happiness
Let me take my own decisions;
I am not an object for fruition
let me go...
Written by Chanda
Saturday, August 23, 2014
There is no safe street for women....Horrible facts
Can you believe that rape is the fourth most common crime against women in India. According to the National Crime Records Bureau 2013 annual report, 24,923 rape cases were reported across India in 2012. The most horrible fact is out of these, 24,470 were committed by relative or neighbor; in other words, the victim knew the alleged rapist in 98 per cent of the cases.
About 100,000 women were claimed to have been kidnapped and raped During the partition of India.
There has also been estimated that up to 100,000 children go missing each year in which majority are being sexually abused.
In Jammu and Kashmir, there have been allegations of rape and mass rape also . Report says that these rape cases have been carried out by both Indian armed forces and Islamist militant groups. The alleged four Rajputana Rifles unit [had entered the village of Kunan Poshpora and raped between 30 and 100 women aged between 13 and 70 (as per the allegations)] were highlighted in 1991. Indian government responded and carried out three inquiries against the allegations but it concluded it as a hoax.
At a glance it seems unbelievable but Human rights groups allege that the Indian armed forces (under the protection of the Armed Forces (Special Powers) Act, 1958) are involved out a large number of rapes in the Nagaland, Assam and Manipur provinces.
During the communal riots (in recent years also) various rape cases have taken places . During the post 2002 Godhra train burning, in the certain parts of Gujarat, rape was carried out by rioters.Thirteen rape and assault cases were reported during the 2013 Muzaffarnagar riots
Friday, August 22, 2014
FEEL THE PUNCH OF MARY KOM
Can you imagine any women with punch. I am talking about Magnificent Mary (Mary com). She is a five-times World Amateur Boxing champion, and the only woman boxer to have won a medal in each one of the six world championships. She is the only Indian woman boxer to have qualified for the 2012 Summer Olympics, competing in the flyweight (51 kg) category and winning the bronze medal. She must would be the role model of those women who think women physically weak. A girl always thinks about her beauty & this male dominated society either creates a horrible accident because of her beauty or dominates her due to less physical strength. What would happened if every girl thinks to protect herself & ready to punch. This will change the world. I am inspired from various quote's of Mary Kom.
Wednesday, February 19, 2014
कुछ नहीं तो थोड़े एहसास दे दो ..
बीतते लम्हों को गुनगुना सकूँ
वक़्त बेवक़्त जश्न मना सकूँ
कुछ यूँ जीने की राह दे दो
कुछ नहीं तो थोड़े एहसास दे दो ...
थक गयी हूँ गम उधार ले लेकर
खुशियों कि थाली तुझे बेवजह दे देकर
चोर सी नजरो से खुशनुमा लम्हों को ताककर
उम्मीदभरी लोगों की जिंदगी में झांककर
कुछ नहीं तो थोड़े जज्बात दे दो
एक अदद मुस्कुराते हालात दे दो ...
मन के गुबार को निकलने की कोशिश बहुत की
टूटे सिलसिलों को गुमराह करने की साजिश बहुत की
तू दूर खड़ा मुझपे मुस्कुराता होगा, ये सोचकर
अपने बेगुनाह हालातों से बेवजह रंजिश बहुत की
कुछ नहीं तो थोड़े बेधड़क अंदाज दे दो
जी सकूँ थोडा मुस्कुरा के वो बात दे दो ....
Written By Chanda
Monday, January 13, 2014
निहारूं तो अपना ही दिल जलेगा…
उम्रभर की ख़ुशी मांगी थी हमने
आपने दर्द का आइना थमा दिया
तोड़ दू तो काँटों की चुभन होगी
और निहारूं तो अपना ही दिल जलेगा…
रिश्ते न होते जीवन की राहों में
तो खुद को रुसवा भी कर जाता
वादों का बंधन न बांधता अगर
तो शायद जीना भी न आजमाता
उम्मीद थी मुस्कराहट कमाने की
और ताउम्र कोशिश भी की
पर आपने तो संगदिली से
नाकामयाबी का दामन थमा दिया...
उम्रभर की ख़ुशी मांगी थी हमने
आपने दर्द का आइना थमा दिया...
गम भी न कर सका इस बात का
दिल मुस्कुराने को मजबूर था
हम खुद को घसीटते रहे और
वक़्त को अपने सितम पे ग़ुरूर था
एक झटके की ख्वाइश थी
और शायद सबकुछ बदल जाता
पर आपने तो बोझल पलकों तले
आंसू छिपाने का फैसला सुना दिया
उम्रभर की ख़ुशी मांगी थी हमने
आपने दर्द का आइना थमा दिया...
तोड़ दू तो काँटों कि चुभन होगी
और निहारूं तो आपना ही दिल जलेगा…
Written by Chanda
आपने दर्द का आइना थमा दिया
तोड़ दू तो काँटों की चुभन होगी
और निहारूं तो अपना ही दिल जलेगा…
रिश्ते न होते जीवन की राहों में
तो खुद को रुसवा भी कर जाता
वादों का बंधन न बांधता अगर
तो शायद जीना भी न आजमाता
उम्मीद थी मुस्कराहट कमाने की
और ताउम्र कोशिश भी की
पर आपने तो संगदिली से
नाकामयाबी का दामन थमा दिया...
उम्रभर की ख़ुशी मांगी थी हमने
आपने दर्द का आइना थमा दिया...
गम भी न कर सका इस बात का
दिल मुस्कुराने को मजबूर था
हम खुद को घसीटते रहे और
वक़्त को अपने सितम पे ग़ुरूर था
एक झटके की ख्वाइश थी
और शायद सबकुछ बदल जाता
पर आपने तो बोझल पलकों तले
आंसू छिपाने का फैसला सुना दिया
उम्रभर की ख़ुशी मांगी थी हमने
आपने दर्द का आइना थमा दिया...
तोड़ दू तो काँटों कि चुभन होगी
और निहारूं तो आपना ही दिल जलेगा…
Written by Chanda
एक शिकन के उभार तो देखो....
Sunday, January 12, 2014
एक शिकन के उभार तो देखो....
"एक शिकन के उभार तो देखो
हर सितम समेट लेती है
न रोती है, न मुस्कुराती है
बस एक लकीर सी खींच देती है
हम भी हर गम पलकों पे उठाकर
इसी के दामन में छुप जाते हैं
पलकों में आंसू भींच लेते हैं और....
बस एक शिकन में सिमट जाते हैं."
अगर सितम करने का हक़ मुझे होता....
Written by Chanda
Saturday, January 11, 2014
अगर सितम करने का हक़ मुझे होता....
अगर सितम करने का हक़ मुझे होता
तो लोगो कि चुभन न देखती मैं
बस उनकी अच्छाइयाँ देखती और,
उसे ही रोने की वजह बना देती.....
तुम पूछोगे कि क्या मिलता मुझे
वो सुकून, या एक चुभन का दर्द
तो मैं बस इतना बताना चाहती हूँ
ये इंसानियत है, जो ख्वाब देना चाहती है
एक इंसान है जो दर्द देना जानता है
और मैं एक पत्थर हूँ बिना एहसासो की
जो न तो खुशी देती है, न गम लेती है
बस एक वार करती है और, चीजें बिखर जाती है....
सच में, अगर सितम करने का हक़ मुझे होता.....
Koi To Puchhe Ki Dil Kyu Roya
Written by Chanda
तो लोगो कि चुभन न देखती मैं
बस उनकी अच्छाइयाँ देखती और,
उसे ही रोने की वजह बना देती.....
तुम पूछोगे कि क्या मिलता मुझे
वो सुकून, या एक चुभन का दर्द
तो मैं बस इतना बताना चाहती हूँ
ये इंसानियत है, जो ख्वाब देना चाहती है
एक इंसान है जो दर्द देना जानता है
और मैं एक पत्थर हूँ बिना एहसासो की
जो न तो खुशी देती है, न गम लेती है
बस एक वार करती है और, चीजें बिखर जाती है....
सच में, अगर सितम करने का हक़ मुझे होता.....
Koi To Puchhe Ki Dil Kyu Roya
Written by Chanda
Sunday, January 5, 2014
इश्क़ है
इश्क़ है, इश्क़ पे फनाह होने की वजह नही
दिल है, दिल में सुकून के लिए जगह नही
दुआ है, पर मांगने की कोई खास सबब नही
जिंदगी है, पर जीने की कोई जिरह नही
उम्र है, हरपल कुछ खोने का एहसास कराती हुई
वक़्त है, गुजरते पलों में अपना वजूद जताती हुई
नाउम्मीदी है, मेरे झरोखों पे अपनी टेक लगाती हुई
आंसू है, मेरे चेहरे पे भावों के बाण चलाती हुई
दोस्त हैं, खुशियों में साथ निभाते हुए
सपने हैं, मेरे दामन से अपना पीछा छुड़ाते हुए
नींद है, कहीं दूर चुप्पी लगाये हुए
ख़ामोशी है, मेरे दर्द को सीने से लिपटाये हुए
अस्तित्व है, पर उससे बहुत दुरी है
मैं वजह हूँ जिसकी जिद अभी अधूरी है
कोई उम्मीद है शायद अब तक कहीं दूर
जो वजूद है, मेरे जीने के लिए जरुरी है।
Written by Chanda
दिल है, दिल में सुकून के लिए जगह नही
दुआ है, पर मांगने की कोई खास सबब नही
जिंदगी है, पर जीने की कोई जिरह नही
उम्र है, हरपल कुछ खोने का एहसास कराती हुई
वक़्त है, गुजरते पलों में अपना वजूद जताती हुई
नाउम्मीदी है, मेरे झरोखों पे अपनी टेक लगाती हुई
आंसू है, मेरे चेहरे पे भावों के बाण चलाती हुई
दोस्त हैं, खुशियों में साथ निभाते हुए
सपने हैं, मेरे दामन से अपना पीछा छुड़ाते हुए
नींद है, कहीं दूर चुप्पी लगाये हुए
ख़ामोशी है, मेरे दर्द को सीने से लिपटाये हुए
अस्तित्व है, पर उससे बहुत दुरी है
मैं वजह हूँ जिसकी जिद अभी अधूरी है
कोई उम्मीद है शायद अब तक कहीं दूर
जो वजूद है, मेरे जीने के लिए जरुरी है।
Written by Chanda
Monday, December 30, 2013
Always Keep Smiling
"teri muskurati ada kya khub luvati hai,
tu na jane kitni teri yad aati hai,
sun ai bekhbar meri iltaja to sun,
tu har waqt gamgin kyu hai,
teri ye ada mera dil dukhati hai,
na jane kab tu khud pe varosa karegi,
or badlegi apni chahat ka rukh,
k'ki teri gamjada palken teri mere rone ka sabab ban jati hai......
tu chanchal hai,sokh hai,
masum saksiyat ka vara pyala hai tu,
ek bat jo kahin dabi hai mere dil me,
chal aj usse mai tujhe ru-baru karu,
jab v aati hai tere chehre pe gam ki lakire,
mere chehre ki muskurahat v kahi gum ho jati hai......
written by chanda.
written by chanda.
Koi To Puchhe Ki Dil Kyu Roya
koi to puchhe ki dil kyun roya...
kya koi gum udhar hai
ya chot khaye hue ho...
koi tarotaza hadsa gujra hai
ya khud pe hi chot lagaye hue ho...
koi to puchhe.......
waqt ka rona hai....
ya kismat ka jor hai
naummidi tujhse hai
ya tu naummidi ki or hai...
aisa kya ho gaya ki chuppi lagaye hue ho...koi to puchhe...
teri khamosi kisi ne suni nahi
kya ish bat ka gum hai...
ya dard to bahoot hai dil me
par aknon me ansu kam hai..
kya ho gaya jo chot pe bhi muskuraye hue ho..
koi to puchhe ki dil kyu roya.....koi to puchhe.
इश्क़ है Written by Chanda.
Friday, May 14, 2010
If You Have Dare To Dream Then "KEEP DREAMING"
"Never touches your beauty if
I look into your beautiful eyes.
When I peep in your dreaming eyes,
it explains your beauty of thinking
and makes you valiant for 'do or die'."
The most beautiful thing of our life is to DREAM. Whenever a thing makes me feel impossible to do. my dream pushes me. It scolds me and says how can I use the words like "I can't do this". It motivates me to dare to do the things looks like impossible. Dream is that lovely world where everything is possible. There is no tension, no society, no drama, no fear, no hopeless things in a dream world. There be just we and our dreams which give us hope, positiveness & freedom. When it implemented in an actual life, we got our dream world to be true. Hereby the most important thing is 'to dream'...'A Dare to Dream'
Written by Chanda
I look into your beautiful eyes.
When I peep in your dreaming eyes,
it explains your beauty of thinking
and makes you valiant for 'do or die'."
The most beautiful thing of our life is to DREAM. Whenever a thing makes me feel impossible to do. my dream pushes me. It scolds me and says how can I use the words like "I can't do this". It motivates me to dare to do the things looks like impossible. Dream is that lovely world where everything is possible. There is no tension, no society, no drama, no fear, no hopeless things in a dream world. There be just we and our dreams which give us hope, positiveness & freedom. When it implemented in an actual life, we got our dream world to be true. Hereby the most important thing is 'to dream'...'A Dare to Dream'
Written by Chanda
Najron ki juba
Monday, May 10, 2010
Sunday, May 9, 2010
A page of my diary......
rona chahu to thahar jate hai
or kabhi ruth jau isse to
bhari mahfil me rula dete hai
kabhi do pal me juda hote hai
kabhi do pal me bah jate hai
mujhse hi hardam ladte hai
fir ladkkar mujhme hi sama jate hai
hardam berukhi se mujhko hi darate hai
na bhi rona chahu to kambakhta ye nikal hi aate hai
meri bebasi ki mujhko ye khub saja dete hai
khamos mere ansu mujhko hi daga dete hai"
Written by Chanda
Wednesday, March 31, 2010
Which One Is More Critical - Struggle Or Suffer?
"struggle makes you hero in people's eye
but suffer gives pain and explain you simplify"
but suffer gives pain and explain you simplify"
when someone struggle in his life he thinks that no one becomes so harder as he is and he has the right to achieve everything. He feels proud on his life and thinks himself as a hero in comparison to others. But girl always suffer because she is a girl which is more achievable than a struggler's life. She pays her labor, her lifestyle & her dreams too. She struggles for economic problems, for physical strengths, for freedom just because she lives in a male dominate society. Society abuse her, misuse her and use her. So what is more critical struggle for getting success and facilities as a human or suffer for surviving as a girl in this society?
Friday, March 19, 2010
"To Be A Girl Is A Punishment"
"Kuchh kahte hai usko patthar,
kuchh uski kismat pe rote,
Jab wo khud pe roti hogi,
Kuch taklif to hoti hogi"
If you have dare to dream then "KEEP DREAMING"
Have you ever imagined the world without women? We never think on "why do girls become a burden even she gives birth of a new life". Everyone wants only son for a bright future whether it is or it is not. The society has created a new punishment for those parents who have a girl child and created capital punishment for girl without doing any mistake. Being a girl is her big mistake. Never think that without a girl the world, the human, the life can't move. Girls are the second name of life and now people are destroying life in the face of a girl.
Written by Chanda
Written by Chanda
Thursday, March 18, 2010
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